Flourishing Spark ยท 03
A 5-minute reflection for a decision stuck in the fog - turning one blocked path into several.
When a decision feels stuck, it's rarely the goal that's missing. It's the sense that there's only one way through - and it's blocked. Clarity isn't the absence of obstacles; it's seeing more than one route. Bring to mind a decision or goal that's sitting in the fog right now.
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Map your routes
One stuck decision - and more than one way through it.
Your map
Three ways through, not none
You came in with one path, and it was blocked. You leave with three - which is the whole point. Clarity isn't certainty about the right answer; it's having enough visible routes that you're no longer stuck. The fog lifts the moment there's more than one way to move.
A goal, a few routes, and the will to take one - that isn't optimism. It's how clarity actually works.
The idea underneath: hope, in the research sense, is a thinking skill - the routes you can see, plus the will to take them. A few well-established ideas sit underneath the map:
Drawn from hope theory and coaching psychology. Nothing you write here is collected or stored - it stays in your browser.
Making Hope Happen - Shane J. Lopez (2013)
Thinking in Bets - Annie Duke (2018)
The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More - Michael Bungay Stanier (2016)
Snyder, C. R. (2002). Hope theory: Rainbows in the mind. Psychological Inquiry, 13(4), 249–275.
Weick, K. E., Sutcliffe, K. M., & Obstfeld, D. (2005). Organizing and the process of sensemaking. Organization Science, 16(4), 409–421.
Luthans, F., Youssef, C. M., & Avolio, B. J. (2007). Psychological capital: Developing the human competitive edge. Oxford University Press.
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A Flourishing Spark · From alexandra-riha.com · Published June 2026
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